Howdy good people!
Now, I'm gonna share some ways when I deal with appreciating my very own self. These are what I do to show that I love, and respect my very own self. Because, for me, myself is my best friend as well as my worst enemy. I will be the enemy of myself by letting my fears, anxiety and negative thoughts filling up my head. Therefore, I tend to do these things mentioned below to show that I love my own self, that I have rights to respect myself for going through every single step of my life.
Don't let other people's (negative) saying defines you
I don't think I can explain this so well. But still, I guess you already have the grip of this point. So, most of the times I tell myself that I shouldn't really care about what other people say about me. You have to believe that you're worth it and the moment when you believe in yourself, you will see that other people will treat you with more respect. However, it should be noted that it doesn't mean we shouldn't see from other people's perspective about us. As long as those sayings are positive and can bring to the better you, then it doesn't matter.
Treating yourself right (rewarding)
This is what I usually do when (I think) I have done such a good job; I treat myself. I give rewards to myself such as eating good food, reading good book, going to places I wanna go to, buying something that I want and so forth. This is the way I keep myself motivated to do things (that I should do :v)
Be healthy be happy!
Isn't it obvious that taking a good care of our health means that we love and/or respect ourselves? Well, so what I do is go for jogging regularly. Well, it's been a while actually since I jog; it's rainy season now here in Jogja so that I often postpone it (excuse -_-)
Be beautiful for yourself: e.g. wearing a dress that make you happy
Because for me, to be beautiful means I appreciate myself and give what myself deserves, and it also means to be myself. So I wear comfortable nice good dress that make me happy (sounds silly?) and (sometimes) do make up. Not for others to see, but for me myself. If others will look at me, well, let's just say at least I make it worth their while, lol.
Having quality me-time
I remember a friend of mine said that we can choose our happiness each day. And that is true. I admit that sometimes I wanna be alone all by myself and just enjoy anything I do without the presence of others. Sometimes. And having a me-time is not bad.
So, don't forget to love yourself first, and everything else will fall into places.
I'm still learning to do so, though.
xoxo
Now, I'm gonna share some ways when I deal with appreciating my very own self. These are what I do to show that I love, and respect my very own self. Because, for me, myself is my best friend as well as my worst enemy. I will be the enemy of myself by letting my fears, anxiety and negative thoughts filling up my head. Therefore, I tend to do these things mentioned below to show that I love my own self, that I have rights to respect myself for going through every single step of my life.
I don't think I can explain this so well. But still, I guess you already have the grip of this point. So, most of the times I tell myself that I shouldn't really care about what other people say about me. You have to believe that you're worth it and the moment when you believe in yourself, you will see that other people will treat you with more respect. However, it should be noted that it doesn't mean we shouldn't see from other people's perspective about us. As long as those sayings are positive and can bring to the better you, then it doesn't matter.
Treating yourself right (rewarding)
This is what I usually do when (I think) I have done such a good job; I treat myself. I give rewards to myself such as eating good food, reading good book, going to places I wanna go to, buying something that I want and so forth. This is the way I keep myself motivated to do things (that I should do :v)
Be healthy be happy!
Isn't it obvious that taking a good care of our health means that we love and/or respect ourselves? Well, so what I do is go for jogging regularly. Well, it's been a while actually since I jog; it's rainy season now here in Jogja so that I often postpone it (excuse -_-)
Be beautiful for yourself: e.g. wearing a dress that make you happy
Because for me, to be beautiful means I appreciate myself and give what myself deserves, and it also means to be myself. So I wear comfortable nice good dress that make me happy (sounds silly?) and (sometimes) do make up. Not for others to see, but for me myself. If others will look at me, well, let's just say at least I make it worth their while, lol.
Having quality me-time
I remember a friend of mine said that we can choose our happiness each day. And that is true. I admit that sometimes I wanna be alone all by myself and just enjoy anything I do without the presence of others. Sometimes. And having a me-time is not bad.
So, don't forget to love yourself first, and everything else will fall into places.
I'm still learning to do so, though.
xoxo
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